[Molly]

Thanks for the kind words, Newworlds, but my Mud has very little to do with this discussion.

I guess most of us will learn the lesson, just by banging our head at the wall enough times. The lesson I've learned myself so far is, that attacks directed at a group of people apparently are acceptable by the moderators, whereas attacks directed against a single person aren't.

I cannot say I am quite comfortable with that, but then again, banging your head at the wall isn't really constructive either.

I frequent other Forums, where flames are unheard of even in heated discussions, not because of heavy moderation, but because the posters there all respect each other. Maybe that is the root of the problems here.